How much of your ceremony would you like you create yourself? Do you prefer long ceremonies or short, informal or formal? What length of time is appropriate for you? What do you want your vows and ceremony to signify (love, commitment, freedom, passion, individuality, truthfulness, etc.)? Will your ceremony include readings, songs/music, or other speakers? What music, if any will you include? Do you want music before, during and after the ceremony? Will it be live or taped, vocal or instrumental? Do you want to have a particular ritual included such as a unity candle, hand wrapping, etc.?